When parents do not live together, they need to arrange who the children live with and how they stay in touch with each parent. The law calls this parental care (cuidado personal) and parenting time (régimen de comunicación) — what used to be known as “custody” and “visitation.”
The general rule is that both parents remain present in their children’s lives, under a plan that fits their schedules, their school and their age. That plan can be agreed between the parents or, if they cannot agree, decided by the family court judge.
Our team prioritizes agreements, because they usually work better for everyone. If the other parent does not comply or the parent–child relationship is at risk, we step in to protect the children and their rights.
How can we help?
- You need to agree on who the children live with and how things are organized.
- The other parent is not following the agreed arrangements.
- You are being prevented from seeing your children.
- You want to change arrangements that no longer work.
- A move is changing how the family is organized.
How we support you
We listen
You tell us what the children's routine looks like today.
Parenting plan
We draw up a realistic proposal that fits schedules, school and the children's ages.
Agreement or mediation
We prioritize agreements, because they usually work better for everyone.
Court, if needed
If there is no agreement, or it is not respected, we act before the family court judge.
Useful documents
- The children's birth certificates.
- Any previous agreements or court orders.
- School and work schedules.
- Messages showing that arrangements were not respected, if any.
Don’t worry if you don’t have everything: we will go through it together at the consultation.
Frequently asked questions
What is parental care?
It refers to parents' duties and powers over their children's day-to-day lives. It can be shared, which is the general rule, or held by one parent in certain cases.
What can I do if I'm not allowed to see my children?
You can ask the court to enforce the parenting-time arrangements. Talk to us and we will explain how to get started.
Do the children get a say?
Yes. Children have the right to be heard, according to their age and maturity.
Related topics
General information only. It is not a substitute for advice on your specific case.